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We gather here today to celebrate the life of Phillip Reid, or as many of us knew him, Phil. A man whose journey through life was marked by resilience, dedication, and an unwavering sense of right and wrong.
Phil’s story began in humble beginnings. Raised in Oulton by his parents, Peggy and John, he grew up in a home without electricity, with an outside toilet, and a potty on the landing. Despite these modest surroundings, or perhaps because of them, Phil developed a strong character and a keen sense of perseverance. He shared his childhood with his siblings Derek, Jill, Sue, and David.
His academic journey took him from Rothwell Junior and Infants, where he passed his 11+ allowing him to go to Rothwell Grammar School. Phil’s thirst for knowledge and his determination led him to Cardiff University to study architecture. However, it was here that he discovered his true calling in welfare rights. His time at university saw him develop a strong moral compass, and his involvement with the student union, eventually becoming president, was just the beginning of his lifelong commitment to social justice.
After completing his studies, Phil became a Welfare Officer at the university. It was during this time he met Sandee, and they married at the young age of 20. Though their marriage was short-lived, it marked an important chapter in Phil’s life.
In 1979, Phil moved to Bradwell and began commuting to Manchester, where he worked for the council as part of the Welfare Rights Team. His career saw him make a significant move in 1984 to Crookesmoor Road in Sheffield. Here, he not only found a new home but also new professional opportunities with Sheffield Council. Over his 30-year tenure, he held several positions, including Principal Welfare Rights Advisor, Social Inclusion Manager, Inclusion and Diversity Manager, and finally, Policy and Performance Development Manager before his retirement in 2014.
Phil’s life wasn’t all work and no play. In his younger days, he was often seen driving his purple MG convertible, even taking it on a memorable trip to Monaco. A keen golfer, though never a member of any club, he enjoyed playing twice a week, exploring various courses with day tickets. His love for sports extended to football, and rugby, where he rooted for Scotland in honour of his father.
Phil had a rich array of interests. A big fan of Doctor Who, he also loved photography, spending countless hours capturing the beauty of Rivelin Valley. His artistic eye saw the world in frames of natural splendour and wildlife.
In 1990, Phil married Carol, with whom he had his son Cameron. Despite their marriage ending, Phil remained a devoted father, which Cameron will talk about further.
In 2012 Phil met Jo as work colleagues. They clicked immediately and soon started a relationship that would last to the end of his life. Phil’s support for Jo during the loss of her parents was profound, culminating in a heartfelt proposal at her mother’s funeral. Their marriage on May 4th, 2016, due to Jo’s love of Star Wars, was a testament to their deep bond.
Phil and Jo’s life together was filled with adventures and shared interests. They travelled extensively, from the idyllic Greek islands to the vibrant shores of Tobago. Regular trips to Whitby were particularly cherished, and their mutual love of gin and whisky was even reflected in the names of their beloved cats, Whisky and Ginny.
A cricket enthusiast, Phil followed the England team on their tours and held a season ticket for Yorkshire in 2016. His thoughtful nature shone through in the simple pleasures of life, such as bringing hampers to cricket games.
Phil was also a dedicated stepfather to Alex and Matt, offering steadfast support especially during difficult times. His quiet demeanour belied a man of strong principles and moral courage, always ready to stand up for those in need.
Today, as we remember Phil, we honour a life well-lived. A man of integrity, compassion, and quiet strength. His legacy is one of unwavering dedication to the welfare of others, a deep love for his family and friends, and a rich tapestry of memories that we will cherish forever.
Rest in peace, Phil. Your journey may have ended, but your spirit and the impact you’ve made will live on in our hearts.
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